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Whether you’ve got a major anniversary coming up or are looking to celebrate Valentine’s Day with your special someone, a private night—or even a whole week or weekend!—away from home is just what the doctor ordered. But where should you go? Whether it’s a fabulous small town situated far away or someplace more close by, you’re going to want to seek out accommodations that match the lovey-dovey vibes you’re going for. Which is precisely why we’ve taken the liberty of rounding up the most romantic hotels in the U.S. Because, after all, what is a romantic getaway, without a romantic place to stay?
Whether you’re on the hunt for the most romantic hotels in California, the land of sea and sun, or hoping to spend some time staring at the snow drifts outside a cozy winter cabin in New England, there will be something for you on this list. Jacuzzi in-room? Check. World class spa? Check. Beach resort? Check and double check. These romantic hotels for couples will match up with so many good things on your list, you may as well just use it as a guide for all your anniversaries and major milestones moving forward.
Whether you use these romantic hotels in the northeast, the southeast and more as your jumping off point for an epic road trip or a quickie Valentine’s Day overnighter, can we make just one suggestion? Order in at least one night, set your phones to silent, and spend the entire evening in your bathrobes. In a world of hustle and bustle, you’ll be sure to savor this zero-distraction time together.
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Salamander Resort & Spa: Middleburg, Virginia
Salamander Resort
The rolling hills of Virginia's hunt country make the perfect backdrop for a romantic getaway in the Mid-Atlantic. At the luxurious Salamander Resort & Spa, you and your person can ride horses, indulge in a decadent Sunday brunch, and relax with a massage at the spa. There's even a couple's suite for joint treatments!
Craving peace and quiet, and don't mind paying extra for the pinnacle of luxury? At Twin Farms, you'll retire to your spectacularly appointed room each night after a day of exploring the 300 acres (there's even a private ski hill), sipping full-bodied pinot noirs from the 150,000 bottle wine cellar, or pampering yourselves at the on-grounds spa.
If this iconic Eastern Shore resort seems familiar, that's because it served as the backdrop for the wedding at which Owen Wilson and Rachel McAdam's characters first meet in the movie Wedding Crashers. (How's that for romance!?) While you're there, you'll enjoy leisurely bike rides around the bay, tennis, and golf. You can also book a private sailboat tour.
In close proximity to both New Hope and Lambertville, this boutique resort is the ideal romantic weekend destination for LGBTQIA+ couples residing in the Northeast. Book a riverfront room to enjoy your morning coffee with waterfront views, then cozy up with whiskey cocktails in the piano lounge come nightfall.
Originally built in 1928 as a country home for a wealthy businessman, this 10,000-plus-square-foot Italianate mansion now offers sumptuous sleeping quarters in 42 guest rooms and seven terrace suites. The Ken Fulk designed interiors are a visual feast, but visitors will also enjoy relaxing at the private pool and kayaking Lady Bird Lake.
Sitting on the edge of New York's Finger Lakes are the five historic properties that encompass lakeside luxury boutique resort Inns of Aurora. Now owned by Pleasant Rowland, the founder of the American Girl Doll toy empire, the resort also features a new 15,000-square-foot-spa (pictured) featuring treatment rooms with warming fireplaces, half-a-dozen hydrotherapy pools, and gorgeous scenery as far as the eye can see.
The Holy City's historic cobblestone allies and tucked-away gardens make for an enchanting, close-to-home Valentine’s Day getaway.HarbourView Inn is Charleston's only waterfront hotel in the Historic District, with luxury accommodations and charming amenities inspired by one of Charleston’s favorite love stories, The Notebook. You can even relive the movie scene-by-scene with Allie & Noah's Timeless Romance Experience!
Able to hop on a plane? If you and your partner need to get away from it all, Kapalua is the place to head—ASAP. The luxury paradise is secluded on 54 acres, surrounded by ocean views and a tropical environment. Adventure seekers can also take advantage of whale watching opportunities for an up close look at Maui’s most famous winter visitor, the humpback whale.
Nestled within the cliffs of Boynton Canyon, Enchantment Resort lives up to its name. It boasts beautiful adobe walls and stunning interior fireplaces, plus pools, nearby hiking trails, a spa, and more.
Looking for a getaway on the East Coast? Head to Lake Placid Lodge in the Adirondacks. Its rustic, nostalgia-inducing décor, mind-blowing lake views, and nightly bonfire are well worth the trip. Plus, there's nothing more romantic than a good cuddle session!
If you've never been to Big Sur before, Valentine's Day is the time. There are few things more romantic than its stunning ridges and vistas, and that view of the Pacific is to die for. Fun fact: This adults-only inn doesn't have alarm clocks or TVs, so feel free to lose track of time and get lost with your partner.
It's true that this 19th-century mansion-turned-boutique-hotel has been voted America's Most Romantic Hotel, and it's for a good reason. The Chanler at Cliff Walk houses 20 romantic rooms that feel like they're straight out of the Gilded Age. Enjoy a meal at the hotel's award-winning restaurant while taking in the spectacular oceanfront views.
This 1740s farmhouse was converted into a bed and breakfast, so need we say more? Audrey's Farmhouse is filled with plenty of antiques and design inspiration while also being pet-friendly. And if you're feeling up to it, you can hit the 22 miles of Hudson Valley trails.
Once you enter Deer Path Inn, you'll feel like you just stepped into England—all thanks to the hotel’s dedicated innkeeper, who spent two weeks traveling around Great Britain to learn the art of English inn-keeping. While staying in one of the inn's 57 rooms, you can also enjoy an authentic English meal at the restaurant, black pudding included!
If visiting Nantucket has always been on your travel bucket list, book a stay at the Greydon House, which was built in the 1850s and still has plenty of seafaring charm. Each of the inn's 20 rooms is uniquely designed with reclaimed chestnut floors and custom headboards.
The Ivy Hotel is a fully restored 19th-century mansion that opened in June 2015. Even though this small hotel only offers 18 rooms, it feels as if you're staying in a friend's home. Guests are also treated to breakfast each morning, as well as afternoon tea.
The Collector Luxury Inn & Gardens: St. Augustine, Florida
Courtesy of The Collector Luxury Inn & Gardens
While walking through the Collector Luxury Inn & Gardens, you'll be immersed in architecture and art that dates back to 1790. Stay in one of the inn's 30 rooms that span across the property's nine buildings, enjoy a drink, and get to know other guests while sitting on one of the breezy verandas.
Sarah Zlotnick is the Lifestyle Director at Country Living, where she has run point on travel, rural lifestyles, and all things vintage and antiques since 2021. Previously a lifestyle editor at Washingtonian and Philadelphia magazines, she has been championing small businesses and regional destinations for 15 years. She also holds a bachelor’s degree in American Studies from Georgetown University, a major her younger self would be quite surprised to learn has come so in handy. First and foremost a service journalism enthusiast, she loves an in-depth explainer on an everyday topic or a deep dive into the history of vintage objects. When she’s not editing and writing, you’ll find her needling her husband to pull off the highway so they can explore a new small town or cozying up with a juicy murder mystery.